Have you ever heard the term that in a serious relationship you should “accept your partners flaws”.
It’s interesting that in western society we focus on the ‘flaw’ side of the relationship.
Rather than searching for flaws in our close relationships (spoiler alert, if you look you will find) wouldn’t it be better to search for what’s good and invest in that?
If we focus on the good then the bad (flaws) will matter less and less.